About
Hello, I’m Julie Whitfield and it’s great to meet you. This is wonderful to be sharing my story for positive reasons, rather than complaining about it. My story is told so that you may see that whatever you think about yourself, whatever you start out with, that whatever your beliefs are, there is always a way to choose again and create a brighter outcome.
My soul very wisely chose the circumstances of this life so that I would be supported in my journey of forgetting who I am. I would totally indulge in this experience here on earth of temporarily believing in limitation and struggle, so that when I had completely had enough, when my back was to the wall with nowhere else to go, I would once again remember the truth of my greatness, that I am an aspect of the ever loving Supreme Being – God.
I grew up in a thick soup of religion, with fear, guilt and shame being the flavour of my early life. My home, school, teachers and preachers, community and friends all belonged to the one dogmatic, religious culture. This was followed by years of depression as is often the way of souls who grow up surrounded by the humiliation and degradation of dogma. I never knew how I was ’supposed’ to feel in any given moment, unsure of how God’s wrath would be unleashed upon me, and I constantly felt shamed that nothing I ever did seemed to be right or pleasing.
This very quickly stomped out any sense of self-worth, intuition, self-confidence and love that arrived with me when I was born, all that which was sent forth from the mighty Being that created me.
While other kids were getting educated, married, buying their first home, seemingly having a life, I drifted, stumbled, crumbled, sank, self-sabotaged, cried, constantly creating debt, beat up on myself until it became self-loathing and I sunk so low, that it literally became a fight for my life after doctors prescribed a smorgasbord of emotionally numbing drugs to bury the pain even further that was so desperately trying to find a way out, but was held captive within.
Tears are forming as I write this, not for what was, but for the little girl who thought that she was nothing, meant nothing, had nothing or could offer nothing. The tears that flow remembering the sadness and the complete and utter loss that I felt during the time that I spent in “the wilderness”, the time of separation from my God-self, my Creator, have very quickly turned to tears of joy and appreciation, tears of gratitude and love for all souls who had a part in this play that was acted out so that I may regain my memory, this understanding of who I truly am, that I could only have found through experiencing the Law of Polarity – The Law of Opposites.
If you have lost your way, know that the path home is always available. it is always there, you simply make a choice, surrender the struggle and move into the flowing stream of well-being, happiness and love. And so it is!
Wisdom Of The Past Meets Science Of The Future
I have studied the ancient wisdom of the East as well as the modern science of the West, and applied it to my life in a way that resonates with the world that I live in. But most importantly I remain attuned and connected with the energy of Spirit that is in all things.
I remain a continuous student of life and a grateful child of the Universe.
I am no different than you Wild Woman. Though I am now more relieved of the burden of carrying many of the limiting beliefs of my earlier years, I know that they are real to the person who is experiencing those crippling and limiting thoughts and feelings. I know your pain is real and I know that you truly believe within your heart there is something more … something better for you because you simply deserve it. You know somewhere within you that you deserve happiness, peace and unlimited success in all areas of your life.
Let me help you find yourself, your truth, your way back home to your heart where you know that all things are possible. As a recovering screw up <grin> you can be assured that I will never judge you. I’m sure that there is nothing that you can say or do that I have not at least thought myself at some time. I will encourage you to go for your dreams and help you to find your north star.
The Wild Woman Wisdom website and blog was created so that women can find the joy and happiness that is within them. Although it may be hidden beneath layers of fear and survival skills, I assure you that it is there, waiting until you decide you are ready to experience the kind of life you may only have dreamt about … until now.
A ‘Wild Woman’, is able to grow and live in a natural authentic state – not cultivated. She is intensely enthusiastic and easily shares her passion and joy for life with those around her.
Life is not meant to be a struggle. It is meant to be an experience of wonder and joy. The only way to step into this bliss within is to open your heart and connect to the Source of your being. Now this does not mean that you must follow religious dogma and fear-based teachings. No Wild Woman. This is about finding the true wisdom within you.
No doubt, much of your natural Infinite Intelligence has been submerged so that you can ‘fit in’ and be accepted. But I assure you, the only way for authentic acceptance is to accept the truth in your heart that you are good and beautiful .. if you will allow it.
There are many ways of tuning in to this magnificence within.
Awareness Is Always The Key
Be aware of the thoughts that run through your mind all day.
Be aware of your environment. That includes the things that you bring into your home. It also includes the people that you bring into your life.
Be aware of your worldview. This is the result of years of conditioning. It is who you think you are from your experiences, but I know that you are something more, something greater.
If you are unsure about whether or not something is right for you, ask yourself this question –
Does this honour me?
Ask yourself this question again and again.
If you’re not satisfied with your life, feeling a little lost or confused, or downright unhappy, you can now make the decision that you are going to turn that around. There are so many little things that you can do to uncover the beautiful authentic goddess that you are.
BEWARE!
There are no quick fixes.
Whatever you are experiencing has taken many years, perhaps your whole lifetime to create. Nothing you do today is going to change that by the time that you tuck yourself in to bed tonight.
There are, however, many, many little but powerful things that you can do every single day to make sure that you are living in your true power as a natural Wild Woman.
So take the time to explore the tools that I have discovered and used myself to turn my own life around. You will find these throughout the blog and the website as well.
So here’s to you Wild Woman.
May you live happy, wild and free!